Uncoded Waters: The Secret Signals of Swinging on Cruise Ships
While mainstream cruise lines primarily cater to general tourism, an intriguing subculture is said to be thriving on some voyages. What might appear as innocent pool inflatables or seemingly random accessories could, in fact, be subtle signals for those participating in the swinging lifestyle.
One widely discussed symbol is the upside-down pineapple. Historically, this motif displayed on a cabin door or an item of clothing has been a recognized sign within the swinging community. However, as awareness of this symbol grows, some cruise lines are reportedly taking action against its visible use.
In response, new, more discreet symbols are emerging. The pink flamingo inflatable, for example, is now suggested as an alternative code for those looking to connect with like-minded individuals. Beyond inflatables, other visual cues are said to include specific jewelry. Wearing pineapple-themed jewelry or a black ring on the left hand are other rumored indicators.
The cruising environment, with its enclosed nature, is believed by some to facilitate connections for those interested in swinging. While specific adult-themed cruises explicitly cater to this lifestyle, often featuring workshops, racy shows, and private "red rooms" where cameras and photos are strictly prohibited, reports suggest that these discreet signals are also used on mainstream cruises.
Beyond visual cues, certain terms are reportedly used within the community to communicate preferences, such as "DDF" (drug and disease free) and "HMP" (height, weight proportional), the latter indicating that an individual is not overweight.
Interestingly, sources suggest that this activity is not limited to adults-only voyages and might even be more prevalent on family-oriented cruises, where participants may find it easier to blend in while seeking connections. However, regardless of the setting, it's emphasized that any activities should remain private within cabins and not occur in public areas or on balconies.